AMOR FATI - Love Your Fate

 Greetings,

So I have been studying a little Stoicism of late, actually I have been reading and learning about Stoicism quite a bit of late as it suits my method of thinking and I wanted to share a thought about one of Stoicism's philosophical tenets. I think that this will be of assistance to some, especially those who have chronic pain, or other chronic health issues, like fibromyalgia (FM) which is what much of this blog is about, my travels through life with FM. To explain how this philosophical tenet works I will be telling a story, my story.

AMOR FATI - Love Your Fate

In the far past days of  my childhood, I had the urge to serve, I did not know this at the time, but when I look back at it this is what the urge was. My first choice of occupation was to join the military forces, my first choice for this was to join the army, go to the Australian Defence Force Academy, become an officer, lead men, and so forth. Of course, this dream was shattered when I found out that I would not pass the medical examination, I was a chronic asthmatic. So even if I was as fit and smart as the rest, No getting in there.

My second plan, once again was to serve. I wrote to my great-uncle who was an Deputy Commissioner in the Queensland Police Service whether there was a chance I could become a police officer, even being a chronic asthmatic. He wrote back to me telling me that I could but before I went for the medical, I would have to have two years completely clear of asthma. Well, that was not going to happen in a hurry, so I shelved that idea.

When we were asked in school what we wanted to be when we grew up, needless to say I had already had a good, long, think about where I was going, and my limitations. This boy wanted to be a fireman, that girl wanted to be a nurse, I decided that I wanted to be an historian. So, from them on any chance I got I would study history of what ever I could get my hands on.

The same pattern followed through my High School years, my eyes were firmly set on my goal. I had a look at other options on the way. I even dabbled a little with the idea of being a shot firer, the person who sets and detonates explosives at mines, but I was clearly going for my goal. Well, there were some stumbles, like failing my first attempt at university, and spending three-and-a-half years unemployed.

During that time of unemployment, with too high a skill level, and no qualifications, that I was put in an office traineeship. Seemed like an idea to tide me over until university places and funding was available. Then I developed pain in my fingers and wrists, to the point that I could not write or even make a sandwich. Here is where FM loomed its ugly head, of course it was misdiagnosed for about two-and-a-half years, meaning that I ended up on anti-inflammatories, which damaged the lining of my stomach, so now I cannot take them at all.

Eventually, I got a diagnosis from a specialist at the local hospital. End of the traineeship, not much good having an employee who has to take random days off because his body doesn't work. I applied for a disability pension. It was rejected and told that it would all clear up in six weeks (I wish). More job search without luck. Eventually I ended up going back to university to do the degree that would set me on the path to becoming an historian.

The Disability Support Officer at the university was great, she helped me manage my degree so I could handle the work. I was given extra time for my examinations, a laptop to type on rather than write. My lecturers were also really understanding, I was able to get extensions on my assignments when I needed them, and they understood my random absences. Only issues throughout the whole thing was dealing with the government to remain funded, and this happened almost every year.

So, you'd think a person with a degree is more easily able to find work, right? Nope. Now you are too over qualified, or under-qualified, you are sandwiched in between where you need to be. I spent a year or so being bounced around again, not finding suitable employment due to my FM. So, I went back to university to do Honours. Finished that, now I am technically qualified in my field. Of course, the offerings for historians are like hen's teeth, they do exist, just very rare.

During my last years of High School I had joined a medieval and Renaissance recreation group the SCA, and was enjoying myself recreating bits of history. If you enjoy studying history, what could be better than living bits of it? This enjoyment did not abate all the way through these ups and downs.

Along the way I had learned how to use a sword called the rapier, now think of a weapon which is the grand-father of the modern epee, and you are on the right sort of track. This is a different sort of fencing: it is not restricted to a strip, it is fought often on a marked out field called a list; unlike sport fencing, you can use your other hand sometimes even to carry another weapon; this form of fencing is based on treatises from the 13th to the 17th centuries. I was developing quite a bit of skill along the way.

To cut a much longer story short, I do still study bits of history, but it is usually something to do with fencing. I fence more than most people, and I actually teach people how to fence. I actually did get on the Disability Pension, so by default I am being paid by the government to research history, and teach people how to fence. I am also writing and publishing some books, which I never thought was going to happen. All in all I am happy with the way things have turned out. This is because I have embraced the way things have turned out rather than resented it. Yes, it has taken me longer than most to get here, but I am more comfortable with what I am doing than most are with what they are.

AMOR FATI - Love Your Fate means to love your life the way it is, not resenting things that did not happen and not hoping for things that might not happen. It is accepting things the way they are and embracing them with all your heart. I accept that my conditions impede my progress, but without them I would not be in the position that I am in now, more in control of what I do during the day than most, more in control of my career than most. Take your life and live it to its fullest.

AMOR FATI - Love Your Fate

A small side note, you will note that I have used lots of Wikipedia links. It is because I believe it is a good resource and worthy of use. It now has the research of many more respected resources as you will find in the bibliographies of many of the articles and I encourage my readers to donate to the Wikipedia to keep this valuable resource alive and free for all.

2019... An Interesting Year

Greetings,

Coming to the end of the year, I thought I would have a look back on the year at some highlights. I will be having a look at these from a neutral perspective, examining things as they were. This means that I will be acknowledging the positives and the negatives to keep things even, but in the end, I think it will turn out to be... another year completed. (Be warned this is a little long.)

Book Published

Well 2019, you have been an interesting year to say the least. There have been some ups and some downs throughout you on a personal scale, and on a broader scale. Let's see if we can do this in relatively chronological order to examine things evenly, it will also see if I can actually remember everything that happened.

I can now claim myself as an author as I have published my first book. I set up a publishing business, Sword and Book Enterprises, in late 2018 to achieve this, so the book was self-published. The book was officially published on 15 Marsh 2019, the book, Un-blogged: A Fencer's Ramblings, is available on-line from all sorts of places including Amazon and Book Depository. There are all sorts of people who helped me with this but, I cannot say "Thank you" enough to Jen Fraser, and my sister Julia Robertson, for their assistance.

On the same day as it was published I had a book launch at my place. I sent out a whole stack of invitations, via Facebook. Even had a Facebook Event set up for it. Of course, on that evening it decided to have torrential rain, so it was almost washed out. There was a small amount of people who were still able to attend and it was, a success pretty much. Hopefully, all things going according to plan, I hope to have two more books out in 2020.

Purple Challenge

Last year I was unable to participate completely in Relay for Life because my health was simply not up to it. I was very disappointed about this. So I decided that I would do something that I could do to raise funds for a good charity, hence My Purple Challenge was envisioned. The object of this was to raise funds and awareness for the Princess Alexandra Hospital Research Foundation, who does research into cancer and other areas.

The Purple Challenge, which I have spoken about before was, for the entire month of May, I would bout people for $1 per bout. The restrictions were that they had to be from a recognised fencing group, and that I had to be at the practice where they would fence me, and there was time to have the bout. In the end, I raised $100 which was more than I expected, so I rated it as a success. I will hopefully be doing a repeat of this next year, with more advertising so I can get more people involved.

Elevation

I am a member of the Society for Creative Anachronisms (SCA). Which is a world-wide organisation that recreates the Medieval and Renaissance periods. The link, above, is to the Kingdom of Lochac which is Australia and New Zealand. I have been a member of this organisation since 1992. We recreate all the good bits of this period. There is an award structure which awards various endeavours which people participate in, and the structure has various levels. The highest being the Peerage.

On 8 June I was elevated to the Order of the Laurel for fencing research and interpretation. I seem to have a pattern of having "big" moments in the SCA coinciding with wet weather, luckily on the day, the weather was "mostly" fine. The ceremony was held during a dry period of the weekend. This was recognition of about 2 decades worth of work. My prime area is Elizabethan fencing manuals, so Vincentio Saviolo (my favourite) and Giacomo di Grassi being the two prime Italianate manuals of the period. In some ways, I am still coming to terms with this recognition because this research is just "what I do".

Fencing Fest

Fencing Fest XVI was held in the beginning of August. It was, once again, a success. This is an SCA event held each year to get all of the historical fencers of the group together to share their knowledge and cross blades with one another. I started it because there was no dedicated event for this to happen. It has since been copied by various people and used to create other events.

I have been Steward (person in charge) of about a dozen Fencing Fests. They are relatively easy to run, especially when you have the right crew and support. My crew has always been amazing and very supportive. I have decided that this was my last one as Steward, as it is time for someone else to have a go and put their mark on the event. Time for me to move on to something different. Of course, I will always be around to give advice.

Swordplay 2019

I attended Swordplay for the Saturday and Sunday. I helped out a little with some stuff, but mostly spectated and caught up with friends that I do not get to see all that often. I would have been helping with safety except I was unable to. The Thursday before the event I had a liver biopsy, which meant that I was in no condition to be doing anything strenuous. I took it easy. This also meant that I missed several workshops that I wanted to attend, but the liver biopsy was substantially more important. Simply, it had to be done. It was the first time that I had attended a Swordplay with out an official role, an interesting experience.

Relay for Life

Relay for Life is rather special for me. My family has been touched by cancer more often than it probably should have. I have already mentioned that I missed out on participating in 2018. Luckily, I was able to fully participate in this year's event. Rather than walking around the track, as the other teams did, ours fenced for the time that was allocated. 17 hours of fencing, needless to say that we did not all do it at once, but had someone fencing all of the time.

This was an interesting, emotional, and fulfilling experience. It rained, and was foggy, which means there was some serious cleaning of weapons and equipment required afterward, but that also meant it kept things mostly cool which was great for fencing. I wish that I could be in as reasonable condition all of the time. I managed my energy levels by choosing my bouts, a little selfish, but worked out I think. Of course, after the event my fibromyalgia made me pay for it afterward, but I still felt it was worth the experience.

Retirement

Not long after Relay for Life, in fact the day after, I retired as the Head of the School of Historical Defense Arts (SHDA). This is something which I have probably mentioned in a post somewhere in one of my blogs, not necessarily this one. I passed on this duty to one of my students, James Wran, who I believe will do an able job of this position. This was not an easy decision to make, but was one that I had to make for my own good.

I have been Head of SHDA since the beginning some 6 years ago, and I felt it was time that someone else took over. I am not going to go into the specific reasons as it is not appropriate here. Needless to say, this is a decision that I made for my physical and mental health. The result of this has been that I am much more relaxed, and also much more focused. I am now teaching individual sessions rather than group ones, allowing better focus on the student. This is what I do better at anyway.

Letting go was a hard thing to do, but it was something that I needed to do. I still have some ties to the School as I still maintain my rank in terms of examination and obviously knowledge, and will always be around to advise should it be required. I may even be convinced to attend a class every now and then to see how things are going.

Health

Health-wise this year has been pretty good, osteoporosis has gone, the end of it much so. My respiratory specialist did not want to see me until next year, so a yearly visit. This means that my lungs are well on their way to clearing themselves up. Obviously my results from the breathing tests have been really good.

The result of the aforementioned liver biopsy was that the liver was clear, so no sarcoidosis present in it, and the fat content that was present was non-reactive. This means that the liver has gone and cleared up completely. This makes me really happy, so my methotrexate was reduced to a maintenance dose. Hopefully there will be some good news sometime in the new year that it can be removed altogether, which would appeal to me.

On the other side of things, my fibromyalgia is being its usual unpredictable, annoying self. Only time I can predict that something is going to happen with it is when I do something strenuous, then I know I am going to pay for it. Other than that, it is the usual roulette wheel of random pain annoyance.

Just to go on top of this the greatest annoyance is my neck and my left arm. The neck is pushing on some nerves which is giving the expected pain, so sore and stiff neck. This is a problem which I have been doing some exercises for and should have taken to the physio by now, so partially my fault. The left arm was thought to be connected to the neck but the nerve is being pressed on the wrong side.

I am getting nerve pain down the left arm affecting some fingers as well, have been for an extended period of time. "It is not the neck because  the nerve is pressing on the wrong side." or so I keep getting told. I think that the FM is playing silly buggers and messing up the signals, but what do I know. It is not mechanical as there is no blocking or pinching. This is a real mystery issue as the doctor has checked pretty much everything. So, looks like I am carrying this one into 2020, but all in all I am doing better than I have been.

Overall

I have not mentioned arguments. I have not mentioned fights with my wife. I have not mentioned a thousand and one annoyances, like the Australian Prime Minister being a complete d*ck, and taking the nation down paths which it should not go. These are things that I have either gotten past, forgotten about, or decided that they are issues which cannot be solved by me, at least alone. So they have not appeared in this summary of the year. I also did not mention my explorations into philosophy which have taken up quite a bit of my time and been very fulfilling. I wanted to keep things a little upbeat and focus on events, trying to end each part with a positive.

Overall, even taking into account the little annoyances, and the bigger ones, 2019 has been a pretty good year. I have made some real achievements and been recognised for others which I have been making over an extended period of time. It has been a year of changes, where I have had to make the changes in my life, rather than letting things change them for me, this has been really fulfilling and empowering. I will hold on to this power and use it in the future.

Take things as they are, without interpretation and you will find that things are not as bad as you think they are. Make the changes yourself and you will find more power than you ever realised that you had.

... and Now for the Good News

Greetings,

The last couple of months have been quite interesting for me in many different ways. I have had some medical appointments which have had some surprisingly positive results, and some changes in my life which were necessary. So I figured that I needed to bring you all up to speed on what's going on.

Medical

On the fibromyalgia (FM) front, not much has changed, but there are no surprises there. I have my good days and I have my not so good days. I have found real pleasure in the good days, and have found things to do during the not so good days which have made them "not so good" rather than bad. I have finally started listening to my body, and doing what it needs... for the most part. I still push things a little hard, but that is just in my nature.

I saw my respiratory specialist earlier in the year and my results came back so positive that she does not want to see me for 12 months. It seems that I aced my breathing tests. I am putting this down to the retreat of my sarcoidosis and also my somewhat increased activity levels in the preceding months. Nothing like forcing your body to do things to make your body work and adapt. The bushfires of late have not helped things, nor did my short stint with a chest infection, but they are merely lumps in the road in comparison.

I went and saw my hepatologist as well, my liver function tests have been "off" for ages, mostly due to sarcoidosis in my liver, but also due to some of my medications. So off for a liver biopsy I went. This was an uncomfortable experience I can tell you, but necessary. It made my FM flare up for about a month afterward, but turned out to be worth it in the end. The results came back... no sarcoidosis present in the liver. I am now on a "maintenance" dose of methotrexate to keep things going, and to prevent the sarcoidosis from returning. The hepatologist is also my gastroenterologist. I have been having a little issue with my bowels... off for another test. Still waiting for that one, not a huge thing, just another annoyance.

Today I saw my endocrinologist for the results of my Body Mass Density (BMD) scan to see how my osteoporosis is going, and also to check on my cortisol levels. Well, the cortisol levels are still on the low side so I will be off to see him again in six months, no change there. On the other hand, I can pretty much write off osteoporosis as a current diagnosis, my bones are in full recovery. A very positive result there.

Life Stuff

On the 19th - 20th October I participated in the Brisbane 2019 Relay for Life for the Cancer Council of Queensland which is designed to raise money and awareness about cancer. Most of the teams walked or jogged around a school oval for 17 hours. My team, Brisbane HEMA Teams Unite fenced for the full amount of time. It was a really fulfilling experience. The event raised over $62,000 which will go to cancer research and assisting cancer patients. This was a real test for my FM having to stay up all night and also participating in the activities, but I made it all the way to the end.

About six years ago I started the School of Historical Defense Arts (SHDA) and it has been going along ever since. There had been some administrative issues within the SHDA which were beginning to affect my mental health so I removed myself from administrative matters earlier on in the year, so I could focus on training the students and elements of the curriculum. These are the things that I am good at and have had the most experience with. Things had not improved, and I noted other areas I was uncomfortable with, so as of month ago I retired from the SHDA as Head of School. I have since been performing individual training. This was not an easy decision but one that I had to make for my own mental health.

In June I was elevated in the Society for Creative Anachronisms (SCA) to the Order of the Laurel for fencing research and interpretation. When I was asked, it was a bit of a shock to me. This is the highest award in the SCA for Arts and Sciences. The elevation ceremony went well. I have found that if you find something that you are passionate about and you just do it for the love of it, things will work out well for you. I truly never was interested in awards, I was always interested in the things which I was passionate about, and that others were to. Seek what you love and do it because you love it, and for no other reason.

It has been an interesting time of the past six months or so. I have been writing still, my blogs, and also various projects. I am coming to the end of one so I will have another book published next year sometime. Hopefully, there may even be a second book self-published, which I have been working on for the past couple of years. Things have been busy, the year has gone like a whirlwind, there have been a lot of positives and some negatives along the way. I think that is about it... I have probably forgotten something, but that will do for now.

Cheers,

Henry.

Henry's Purple Challenge

Greetings,

I am going to be rather busy over the month of May, why? A small project to raise awareness about fibromyalgia (FM) and also to raise some money for a local charity which I like to support in the process. It is also an excuse for me to get to fence a lot of people and do some good in the process, not only for myself but others as well. See you in May.

Cheers,

Henry.

Henry's Purple Challenge

Fibromyalgia the condition which I have is identified by the purple charity ribbon, hence the name of this challenge being the “Purple Challenge”. It also happens to be the colour for sarcoidosis as well. The aim of this challenge is primarily to raise awareness of people with fibromyalgia and other such similar conditions, and raise some money for charity along the way.

The primary intent of the challenge is to fight $1 bouts for the entire month against any combatant. Obviously these combatants will have to have been suitably authorised in rapier combat should they be SCA members, and suitably qualified by an instructor from other recognised Historical European Martial Arts schools. These combats will take place wherever and whenever I am at an event or training session by request of the individual who is making the donation. Obviously, sufficient time must be left in the event or training session for the bout to be completed. Any further information can be gained by contacting me.

The money raised from these bouts will be donated to the Princess Alexandra Hospital Research Foundation. Needless to say donations to the Foundation will also be happily accepted. I have chosen the PAH Research Foundation because they are a local research foundation doing important research, and by all accounts, no one in Australia is doing research into FM. 

International Awareness Day

May 12^th 2019, is International Awareness Day for Chronic Immunological and Neurological Diseases, which includes Myalgic Encephalomyelitis (ME), Chronic Fatigue Syndrome (CFS), Gulf War Syndrome (GWS), Multiple Chemical Sensitivity (MCS), and Fibromyalgia (FM). For the most part, many people will not know what many of these conditions are or how they affect people with them. Needless to say the International Awareness Days are designed to reverse this.

Obviously my main interest is raising awareness of FM. Information can be found all over the Internet, some of it is good some of it not so much. Below, is part of the Wikipedia page definition for Fibromyalgia.

“Fibromyalgia (FM) is a medical condition characterised by chronic widespread pain and a heightened pain response to pressure. Other symptoms include tiredness to a degree that normal activities are affected, sleep problems and troubles with memory. Some people also report restless legs syndrome, bowel or bladder problems, numbness and tingling and sensitivity to noise, lights or temperature. Fibromyalgia is frequently associated with depression, anxiety and posttraumatic stress disorder. Other types of chronic pain are also frequently present.

The cause of fibromyalgia is unknown; however, it is believed to involve a combination of genetic and environmental factors, with each playing a substantial role. The condition runs in families and many genes are believed to be involved. Environmental factors may include psychological stress, trauma and certain infections. The pain appears to result from processes in the central nervous system and the condition is referred to as a "central sensitization syndrome". Fibromyalgia is recognized as a disorder by the US National Institutes of Health and the American College of Rheumatology. There is no specific diagnostic test. Diagnosis involves first ruling out other potential causes and verifying that a set number of symptoms are present.” https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fibromyalgia

2017 is Gone, 2018 is Here

Greetings,

I don't usually do this, but I figured that I might anyway. This will be a kind of "year in review" but with a bit of a difference. While we need to look at things that have happened, it is also important to look forward to things that are coming, both to prepare for them and to hope for them. One thing that I will say, just sitting here, except for a couple of highlights, here and there 2017 is a bit of a blur now.

Well, 2017 had its upside and sure had its downside. The result being that it turned into a bit of a year with memories which I will keep and some things which I could get rid of, or reverse.

January started as it always does, hot. It also had all of the first month of the year poking and prodding by specialists, just to make sure that everything was going according to plan. There were also a couple of small swordplay things in there as well, just to cap the month off.

February was pretty dull, somewhere either in January or February my neck issue had also risen its ugly head, again. CT done to see if anything could be done, physiotherapy chosen instead. C5 - C7 is a mess and presses on the nerve giving me headaches and pain, real lots of fun when combined with the fibromyalgia (FM), but this is a recurring problem not something I can blame 2017 for.

Good things that happened over the early months, diagnosis of Central Sleep Apnoea (CSA) and a new machine meaning I am now getting real quality sleep, a real bonus. I can tell the difference without it, like a lot. Of course I had to pay for the mask myself which took a couple of months and a couple of hundred dollars.

Oh, yeah forgot, during the storms earlier in the year we got storm damage. It then has took about eight months to get the roof repaired, and the actual damaged part of the front of the house still has not been repaired yet as I am waiting to hear from the builder. Overall, thank goodness for insurance on the house.

The year wore on and I was given a diagnosis of plantar fasciitis, which explained the reason why my feet were getting so sore when I was standing on them for any length of time. Just another one to add to my list.

Went to Great Northern War (national SCA event), which was wet, very much so. Still had quite a bit of fun teaching fencing and also fencing. Won the Powerful Owl Rapier Tournament, which I was quite happy with considering the weather was doing my joints no favours whatsoever. It was also nice to see others fencing so well.

The calendar seems to be dotted with appointments during the colder months which I was not able to make, which was unfortunate, but this is kind of expected. There are also quite a few more doctor's appointments scheduled during this period as well.

Went to Fencing Fest as a paying customer for the first time, which was nice. Still did a class on cutting with milk bottles filled with water which was quite popular again. I will be running the event again next year. In August I also managed to get to fence a friend who I have been waiting to fence for 21 years, Nic Harrison, and it was everything that I had been waiting for.

September was its usual busy self. St Florian Baronial (local SCA tournament) and Swordplay 2017 (national HEMA event) resulted in me being in a wheelchair for the last day of Swordplay having pretty much run myself into the ground, this is called causing a fibro-flare because you worked it too hard. This resulted in me being off my feet for about a week. Due to a repetitive theme of this "week's recovery" every year, I have relinquished my role as Chief Safety Marshal for 2018.

In early October I was invited to join the Order of Defence (the highest level in the SCA possible for fencing), which I accepted. The elevation took place at the Burnfield 15th Birthday Bash, and the event contains memories which I will hold dear. This was a big thing for me. Also this year I sent of the manuscript of my first book to the publisher to be published, so hopefully that will be out this year.

Just when everything looked like it was going rather well, my cousin passed away on 17th December, she died saving her nephews, which is something which I will take with me, always a hero. Just to make it a real kick in the teeth it was the 10th anniversary of my mothers death on the 16th December, so the end of December looked pretty bleak for me and I found it quite hard to get into the whole "Christmas spirit". Casey and I did the easy thing and stayed home and let people visit us.

New Year's Eve was spent playing board games and card games with a few friends. The new year was rung in with relative quiet celebration.

The most important thing to remember is that 2017 is gone, 2018 is here and it is this year that you have to deal with. Yes, there is some fall-out which will brush over from one to the next, but you must move on and move on with a positive spirit. I have heard too many people say "Well, it can't be any worse than last year." Well, actually it can. You should do your damned hardest to make sure it isn't. You have to do your bit too.

Cheers,

Henry.

Where has "The Dream" Gone?

Greetings,

Of late I have had a lot of time to think. I have been a member, paid and unpaid, of the Society for Creative Anachronism (SCA) now since 1992. This means I have been interacting with various parts of this organisation for some time. I have seen some of the great parts about it, and I have also seen some of the not so great parts about it. Problem at the moment is the latter seems to be overshadowing the former of late, and I am losing my faith in the SCA and seriously asking myself whether or not it is time to move on.

This is a post which has been sitting around waiting to be written for a long time, though it was a symptom of a year of some severe loses and resulting impacts on my life. The more I think about it, I think that these elements have only served to highlight what my usually positive attitude has been hiding for a long time. As I have stated I am a long-standing member of the SCA, I have participated in all three forms of combat in some part, and excelled in rapier combat. I have accrued various titles as a result of my interactions with others and also dedication to what I had chosen to do. I am not going to go into any detail here as I do not think that there is any point, this is mere background.

For me at the moment, the fantasy is gone. Titles and awards to me have begun to mean nothing to me so I strive only to do those things which are of interest to me, or which will assist those friends which I have within various groups. This has resulted in a loss of excitement. I used to get excited about the next event I would be going to and would go out of my way to go to as many as I could. Now I only attend those which I really feel like going to or those which I have been asked to attend.

During my time in the SCA I have gained quite a bit of skill in the art of rapier combat, as a result I have won quite a few tournaments in my time. I used to be really enthusiastic about the prospect of a tournament and the chance to show off my skill and come out on top, now not so much. These victories do not hold the enticement they once had.

The Society itself has changed, within the groups it can be seen that the high ideals that used to be expressed by its members in word and deed both on and off the field seem to be diminished. The importance of Courtesy and Chivalry both on and off the field of battle seems to have been lost somewhere in the importance of titles and making a good impression on those with supposed power within the groups. Politics is invading all parts of the Society, there is nowhere to hide. I have had some friends who have been lost and others who have reduced their contact due to politics, and indeed problems can result by the mere association with people of the "wrong" character. The determination being up to another group of people. The result of this is that the openness of groups that I once experienced seems to have disappeared and now it is difficult to find common ground with many people, even though we are all playing the same game.

The Society, at least in Australia, has become a victim of its own success and circumstances. As research in subjects and knowledge has grown, so too has the expectation of the performance and dress of its members. It would seem that gone are the days where a person would be accepted turning up in a t-tunic and jeans, just as much as the person who researches every element of their attire. Research expectations have also grown, if every element is not researched, it can almost be expected that someone will criticise the work which has been done, or not done as the case may be. In this there is no encouragement and direction for further research mere criticism of the work which has been done. What is the most concerning about these standards is that such standards are even put upon newcomers and this quite frequently scares them away, the leeway of time to get established is gone, the expectations have replaced it.

Conservatism has invaded the groups in action and in the dress of individuals. These outside aspects, more appropriate to a Victorian recreation group have found themselves present in this medieval and Renaissance group. Along with this has gone the sense of humour and sense of fun. Many of the individuals take things much too seriously and have forgotten the humorous and cheeky elements which were always present in the past.

So with all of these elements present the question which has to be put is; is it time to move on? The question that follows is where to? HEMA? I have already referred to my new School the School of Historical Defense Arts (SHDA) as my "retirement" plan. It covers all of the elements of research and combat which I enjoy without the other elements which I so dislike. Or should I keep fighting and hope that things improve? There are still people in the SCA with whom I am still good friends, and events which I attend which I do still enjoy.

I think at this stage that a partial movement away, while maintaining some contact is the best way at the moment. I will stay involved with the SCA and attend those events which I choose to, and be with those people who I like to be with and see how it goes. I hope that sometime in the future the SCA gains some of what it has lost and that my faith is restored, as I believe it would be a sorry day for me to move completely away and leave all of those people who I still call true friends behind.

Cheers,

Henry.